Sunday, 21 June 2009

A Date

a real live date! and I went on one!! dinner.

I was really nice too. the meal itself was great, and the company was good too. yes with the guy from the previous post :)

This guy is really nice, and intelligent & we chatted with ease, then we went back to his place & watched a couple of movies. It was nice to cuddle on the couch, and chat a little. half way through the night he brought out his duvet which was not only a really nice and warm blanket, but I totally love snuggling under a blanket in front of the telly.

He has tools too. Like a circular saw!!

With the second movie over I was invited to stay, and so I accepted. With everything going so well, I was a little worried that he might not be up to my recent standards in the boudoir... however my fears were completely unjustified. He even did something I normally do to guys... the soft touch over the skin .... hard to explain, but now I know why my ex used to like it so much. He also gives good back massages!

I don't think I'm getting carried away... yet, and I'm trying to take things as they come, but I really hope things continue.

Sunday, 14 June 2009

There's someone else

So sorry for not updating sooner, but it's true, I have another blog and have been involved with posting there every day this June.
But now for an update that I'm not putting over there... yet.

I am not a skank. Looks like you can grow out of being a tart, and I have. yah me!! of course there was probably a lot to do with the guy who came over last night too. Things could have gone differently, infact I'm fairly sure that if he had tried some moves & earlier in the evening, it all could have turned out different for him. (so maybe, its not me, it's him)

Basically me and this guy have been trying to catch up for a while.. without getting horribly wasted at the same time... except when you are single, and have been for a while, you learn to fill up your days and evenings with all sorts of carry on, and it's been a bit tricky. Even last night, I didn't get home from running around town til 7pm, and was fairly beat then... he had to go to a pot luck dinner with some friends, he text me at 9:30pm though and came over (he was lucky, i was just contemplating bed or a bath).
We chatted and vaguely watched some bad tv... til about 3am!! around this time he makes his move to kiss me. He was pretty good though, all evening he made sure he was sitting quite close - which can be tricky, cause i have a decent size couch. But even with kissing, he didn't try any gropage, or suggest anything 'extra'. And yet if I was heading over to a guys place at 10pm, i'd be thinking "booty-call" but then i most guys are easy!

So, obviously a really nice guy, he's not too nice though. Lives by himself, seems to be fairly financially independent, intelligent, has a vehicle and a job (engineer) and a bit of drive with running a small business (enough to have an accountant) and he is studying part time as well. I'm not blown away by him, but do want to get to know him further and enjoyed spending time with him. I'm not writing him off... let's just see where this goes, if indeed anywhere.