are there still men out there?
One of my friends pointed out to me, that i refer to males as 'boys' - but really that is what they are. Boys i understand - although i'm no longer sure what would categorise a male to be a 'man'. Infact when i mentioned this to another girlfriend of mine, she too was stumped to mention any of our male friends as men. Perhaps it is this lack of respect, that is truely holding me back from finding someone worthy. My view is that not only does my man/boy friend have to be worthy, but he also needs to be able to cope with me, have a strong enough character to deal with me. I know i have issues, but most are hidden, and only the strong and/or persistent have the means to find them, let alone actually make me deal with them. Other than that - I'd make a great wife/girlfriend/lover, i like to think that i am fairly low maintenance, but i guess that is mostly surface stuff.
Talking to girls about boys at the wedding was an interesting venture (and not something i recommend to do everyday). one topic in particular started on the subject of swallowing. All the girls in the room exclaimed how disgusting it was blah blah... (I quietly - due to being sober - mentioned 'nothing a shot of whisky wouldn't fix') then one girl who has been married for a few years said "you won't have to do that anymore" to the bride. I was left thinking that perhaps this was one of the contributing factors to the demise of my marriage ... our sex life got freakier and more inventive, rather than ending with me lying back and thinking of england.
enlightening? perhaps, I now know a little bit more about me, and a little more on them. good to know that different doesn't mean better.
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As far as what makes a 'Man', it's all in the back-hair. Although I've still got a smooth, hairless back (and relatively hairless butt-crack), I'm descended from a long line of Gorillas. In fact, Dianne Fossey followed my Dad around for six months, having mistaken him for a Silver-Backed Mountain Gorilla. Now there's a man!
hmmm, you may have a point here... I haven't been with a hairy man for quite some time... and I'm not sure i really know any. this is going to take further ponderance.
Hefty Jeff - sword swallower extrodinaire (used to and possibly still does perform at the arts centre) - VERY hairy, not sure i would call him a man though. closer though... hmmmm
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